another new guy...

topic posted Mon, June 25, 2007 - 8:57 PM by  Chris
Hi, everyone! I am glad to have found this. Here is some some background on my situation...
I am a male virgin, aged 20 years. Despite this, I am not totally inexperienced as I have dated and have done about everything except "full-blown sex" with women, but each time, I was approached first, and it doesn't help that I started at this later than most of my peers(I was 18). Point is, I haven't quite learned how to actively start a relationship yet, and I would like to seize control over my love life. Also, I am a bit on the awkward side socially(but improving!), so this makes it a little hard for me too. I imagine a good bit of you guys are in the same boat, but with more prior experience, so if you have some tips, I'd like to hear them.

I realize being 20 and a virgin is certainly not unheard of, and is actually more common nowadays. However, I sometimes worry about ending up celibate into middle age, and am eager to nip this situation in the bud.

I know you may be wondering why I have no pic or anything uploaded. I'll be happy to upload a pic and work on my profile, etc. once I can save up money for a camera. Thanks for reading this!
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  • Re: another new guy...

    Sun, October 7, 2007 - 1:09 AM
    I lost my virginity when I was 20 to a girl who to this date is the most beautiful and most intelligent person I have ever met. I don't regret waiting. I was way too socially awkward to navigate that experience before I did.

    • Re: another new guy...

      Mon, November 19, 2007 - 2:27 PM
      Yeah, you should not wait. I have heard it before "You're still young" all that. You're not getting younger and it is not difficult to become the 40-year-old virgin.

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